When you are invited to a cocktail party, and the host asks, "What would you like to drink?" Your response should not be, "I'd like a Bombay Sapphire martini straight up with bleu cheese stuffed olives and have the vermouth blow the martini a kiss."
The proper thing to say is, "What are you serving?"
If you are hosting the cocktail party, be able to recite a few of the beverages that you have available, along with any specialty cocktails. Be sure to offer non-alcoholic beverages as well for non-drinkers and designated drivers.
Thank you to the Culture & Manners Institute for this nugget of insight.
